Even though (and maybe because?) we live in a smallish apartment, I have such a hard time keeping it clean. As soon as I pick something up, I have three little tornadoes behind me making a mess, trying to spread toys to every room. Things like doing dishes, cleaning the stove, and scrubbing the bathtub are difficult because I need to help kids and can't complete a task. Plus when I do a "bigger" job like organizing a drawer or cleaning the fridge, then the other smaller things like picking up toys don't happen because I don't have time. I can tolerate some messiness (as you, my former roommates probably know :), but it's immediately overwhelming when you wait to clean the floor until it's covered in food, or wait to dust the blinds until they are completely dusty. All the while, I have this internal struggle about actually playing with my kids and spending time with them versus spending most of my day cleaning.
At the start of January, I knew I needed to make some type of change. Nelson was starting a new semester, his hardest one yet, on top of his full-time work where they are facing lay-offs (I think he'll be safe, fingers crossed). When he finally walks in the door from a crazy day at 9:30 pm and the house is a disaster, it increases his anxiety about not being able to help me and our kids. Not that I can't be real with him or that he doesn't know how hard it is to keep a tidy house, but that I want to do what I can on my part to help him. Also, our kids are just about getting to an age where they can entertain themselves for a little while, and our oldest is becoming a good helper.
So I came up with a Home Management Plan.
A few things:
-I am still in the "honeymoon stage" with this-- I'm still kind of having fun with it and making it work. That may change in a few months.
-There is no way I could have done this with a newborn or if my kids didn't play alone for a few minutes. I would scale it way back and only try to do bigger jobs like cleaning the tub once a month or something.
-I didn't want to start something that, if I didn't complete each job each day, I would feel bad about myself. I am okay with the fact that I might not get everything done every day, but it gives me motivation and accountability. I also like that when I'm done with my jobs for the day, it frees my mind to play with my kids. I know that, even if I didn't clean the toilet, that's a job for another day.
-Now I don't have to write everything down in my planner, but I can still cross it off when I finish-- a little thing I like to do :)
-I've already made changes and will continue to do so (ex: Sundays are very busy and I really don't have time to work on our photo book or journal, so I've got to figure out another regular time to do that; I usually have to do a load of laundry on Fridays; I'm going to add "exercise" to Thursdays)
-I have it printed with a cute picture on top and a scripture on the bottom, and I keep it inside a clear plastic sheet protector with a dry erase marker nearby to mark off the boxes. I got a laminator for Christmas that I'll break out soon and laminate it, once I've got everything how I like it for sure.
Daily Personal:
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Prayers
☐ Scriptures
☐
Shower
Daily:
Kids Jobs,
especially:
Monday: ☐ Exercise
Tuesday: ☐ Laundry:
towels, rags, bedding
Wednesday: ☐ Exercise
Thursday: ☐ Dust;
Clean doorknobs
Friday: ☐ Counters
& papers cleared off
Saturday: ☐ Exercise
Sunday: ☐ Photo
book or journal
*Monthly Jobs
This Home Management Plan has been great for me. Our house is generally clean every day now (like, I could let someone come inside if they knocked on the door at any given time and it wouldn't be a disaster zone). It has brought a lot of order to our home and peace of mind to Nelson and me.
Have you done a daily checklist like this? If not, what do you do to keep from getting overwhelmed and have a tidy house?
This looks great! The easiest way for me to keep my house clean was when we were trying to get it ready to sell (in WA). We had to declutter everything and simplify decor, counterspace, fridge papers, etc. Having a blank slate made it so easy to finalize the cleaning every night.
ReplyDeleteI also ran across this idea a while ago and it was helpful. . . then I forgot about it until now: http://funcheaporfree.com/2011/12/youre-welcome-wednesday-tip-keep-your-3/
I love your idea of monthly jobs. Because sometimes those organization things stare me in the face for so long and I get discouraged by all the other little things I have to do instead!!
We had a relief society night on this once and they did a similar plan, just with cards in a box, and you get the cards out for each day. I need to do something though. Right now I just have the things I know I need to do every day, and then I write out a list of anything else that needs to get done. (I also really like checking things off.) Some days it works, some days not. This is a great idea though!
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